Mim, Mom, Mama, Grandma, Grandma Mim

Thank you for touching our lives.

Miriam (Mim) Bryan, beloved mother and matriarch, energetic community & church leader, and lifelong student, died on January 26, 2022. This site honors her, her life and works, and her memory.

As a blog, it is an opportunity for loved ones, friends and family, kith and kin, colleagues and citizens, to offer our thoughts, wishes, and reminiscences to her memory and to each other.

Stories from Family and Friends

  • Memorial remarks–Rick

    Hello, and welcome, everyone! We are all gathered, virtually, to commemorate Miriam Bryan, Mim, who passed away on January 26th, 2022. We are here to remember her, to celebrate her life and her works and to renew the love we shared with her and share with each other. Thank you, everyone, for joining us today.…

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  • Energetical

    Ode to Mim Bryan, on her 85th birthday, September 29, 2012(with the usual apologies to Gilbert & Sullivan) She is the very model of a modern family matriarch,And yes, she’s turning 85, but clearly hasn’t lost her spark.She’s smart, she’s kind, she dances too: she is a triple threat-ical.The world’s a better place because our…

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  • Graduation Inspiration

    I had to give a speech at my high school graduation (1 score and 2 years ago). In typical Bryan fashion, I had not yet finished writing it when Grandma (Mim) and Grandpa (Joe) arrived at our house the day before, but this worked out in my favor! At dinner that night we talked about…

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  • The voice

    Mim had a quiet yet abiding belief in God. She suffered at least one loudmouth know-it-all high school son arguing the topic, to the point where Joe had to step in to say, “Stop browbeating your mother.” Some number of all-too-short decades later, in intimate conversation with that son, she recounted a couple of occasions…

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  • One of the flower people

    Mim lived at Sunrise, an assisted living facility in Wayland, Massachusetts, from 2015 through 2020. Her time at Sunrise was lively. She joined in practically every planned activity that she could, and made some of her own. An ardent garden club member, arranger, flower show judge, etc., Mim continued to indulge her lifelong interest at…

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  • Lunch with Mim in New York City

    My Grandma Mim was tickled when I started learning Spanish in school. She had studied Spanish in a past life and didn’t have as many opportunities to practice it at that time, so when we saw each other, we’d have fun swapping phrases and correcting each other’s mistakes (Mostly mine! She was a thoughtful speaker…

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  • Stand by me

    On one unfortunate occasion when her adult children were in an emotional intra-family altercation, Mom could have tuned us out, or said for the zillionth time, “Won’t you kids just stop bickering!” but she was listening. She came over and literally stood by me, taking my side. Her support in that moment has stuck with…

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  • MIM to the bride’s rescue

    November 25, 1979 Dateline: Brookline, MA 48 Lawton St. T minus 3 hours to wedding. ACK! Suzie’s wedding dress is still not done. Mim already in her Mother-of-the Groom finery (and beautiful as always) to the rescue. She hemmed my dress and worked on my hat. (Her husband Joe finished my hat in the car…

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